Yoga and Special Needs
Yoga After Breast Cancer Program™ | Yoga for the
Special Child™
Yoga, the Greatest Gift
By Julie Peoples-Clark
Three
years ago, I gave birth to my daughter Ella. My husband and I
were so excited to be having a baby. I had a wonderful full-term
pregnancy. I ate right, exercised everyday, didn’t drink
alcohol, and stayed away from anyone who was smoking. It was
a wonderful time. My due date came and went and I was two weeks
overdue when I finally went into labor. It was a very hard, long
labor; I pushed for four and a half hours. Ella went into distress
and was not breathing when she was born. She was taken away from
me. The next time I saw her she was in the Neonatal Intensive
Care Unit.
On the third day after her birth, I was finally
able to hold her. It was a wonderful moment. Then the doctors
told
us she was having seizures and had severe brain
damage. We took Ella home at three weeks not really knowing what to make of the
doctor’s gloomy predictions. A couple of months later, she was diagnosed
with spastic quadriplegia cerebral palsy and we were told she would never walk
or talk.
I fell into a deep depression that lasted for two
and a half years. The depth of my depression was so extreme that
I shudder to think of the dangerous
thoughts
I had during this time. Despite my depression, I did manage to do a lot of
research on alternative therapies for brain injury. We tried
a lot of them, some worked
and many didn’t. With the therapies that worked, Ella improved. She has
gone from a screaming baby to a happy little girl who smiles all of the time.
One of the therapies that I researched was Yoga
for the Special Child™ developed
by Sonia Sumar. I had practiced yoga for many years before Ella was born
so I was drawn to this program. In the workshop, I was introduced
to a step-by-step
integrated system of yoga asanas designed to increase cognitive and motor
skills. Sonia also encouraged me to practice yoga again along
with read many of the
ancient
yoga texts. One of the lessons that I learned from my readings was that in
order for me to take care of Ella I had to take care of myself. I began practicing
yoga everyday by myself and with Ella. I woke each morning washed my face,
brushed
my teeth, read from the yoga texts, meditated, and practiced my yoga poses.
My depression began to lift and Ella continued to improve. By practicing
with Ella
everyday, I gained a sense of power over her recovery, finally feeling like
I could help her. Sharing our yoga practice gives us a chance to connect
in a loving
and gentle way. As we go through our practice, I think about the important
lesson of non-attachment that yoga teaches: letting go of the expectations
of my perfect
life with the perfect baby. I live in the present moment finding joy each
day and marveling at my incredible daughter and all she has overcome.
Yoga
as Therapy for Children with Special Needs
Founded in science,
enriched with compassion, Yoga for the Special Child™ is
an innovative and effective approach to therapy developed by Sonia Sumar.
The Yoga for the Special Child™ method is a complete system
of therapy for children. The practice includes aspects of many
of the traditional therapies
that are offered to children with special needs—speech, physical therapy,
manual competence and eye exercises… to name a few. Yoga asanas tone
specific muscle and nerve groups, benefit organs and endocrine glands and
activate brain
cells. By encouraging an inward attention of the breath as you move through
the poses, you focus the mind and encourage deep relaxation. Children begin
to feel
safe in their bodies by bringing attention to the specific parts of the body
through yoga asana practice. They develop a sense of self—a map of
me. When done correctly, yoga asana practice can lead to a more positive
parasympathetic
nervous system response. Many children with special needs are stuck in the
sympathetic nervous system response-fight or flight. Yoga’s positive
influence on the parasympathetic nervous system may make the child more resilient
and better able
to cope with stress, strengthening the immune system. Yoga may help regulate
circadian rhythms, which control sleep cycles. Children with special needs
tend to have terrible sleeping patterns. Improving a child’s sleeping
patterns can completely change the quality of life in the family.
Yoga has
been a wonderful complimentary therapy for Ella and for me. By learning
and living the lessons of yoga each day, I have completely changed
my life.
I have come to peace with the tragedy of Ella’s birth and I have
moved on. Ella is the greatest gift I could have ever received. She has
taught
me more
about the person I hope to become than anyone else could. Ella is my guru!
Julie
is certified in the Yoga for the Special Child™ method and a Registered
Svadhyaya Yoga Teacher with the National Yoga Alliance. She is a former
professional modern dancer and teacher of modern dance and ballet. Julie
is the mother of
an amazing three-year-old little girl with cerebral palsy. Julie handles
the daily joys and challenges of raising a child with a disability by
living and
practicing yoga everyday. Julie continues her study of yoga and is enrolled
in a 500-hour certification program with the Silver Lotus Institute.
Contact Julie
at juliepeoplesclark@verizon.net. |